Why Aisam Is The Real Winner

So Aisam-ul-Haq Qureshi is the name being uttered about by almost every Pakistani these days. Though he has been playing since an early age all on his own without any financial support from the Government or other authorities and has tennis in his genes (having his maternal grandfather, Khawaja Iftikhar was the All-India champion before partition and his mother Nousheen Ihtesham had won the national women title for 10 years and also represented Pakistan in Fed Cup.) – but him becoming the first Pakistani in history to reach any Grand Slam event Final brought him to the light and attention he deserved long ago.

And though he and his partners lost both US Open Mixed Doubles’ Final and Mens’ Double Final to, Aisam turned out to be a hero. After him and his partner Rohan Bopanna were beaten by the Bryan Brother, he delivered a speech which was concise yet was, in short the voice of 180 million Pakistanis:


“Every time I come here, I feel there’s a very wrong perception of Pakistan as a terrorist country. I just want to say we are a friendly, caring and peace-loving country and we want peace as much as you all. God bless us all.”




As New York Daily News writes:

“As a Muslim from Pakistan playing in the U.S. Open doubles final, he said New York needed his words the most, as post-9/11 counsel. So the 30-year-old grabbed the microphone and addressed the estimated 15,000 at Arthur Ashe Stadium – probably the biggest crowd to watch a Grand Slam doubles final – and made sure the moment wasn’t lost.

Prize money and rankings were never a motivating factor, Qureshi said, only good news for his flood-stricken countrymen and a platform to express his message of American misunderstanding.

He also defended the decision to build a mosque near the World Trade Center site.

“For me, as a Muslim, that’s what makes America the greatest country in the world – freedom of religion, freedom of speech,” Qureshi said.

“If the mosque is built, I think it’s a huge gesture to all the Muslim community out there in the world. I would really appreciate it.”

Qureshi said he’s been stopped at airport immigration “every time” in New York – three hours at a time – including after his latest flight for the Open. And on the eve of the ninth anniversary of the 9/11 attacks, he wanted to defend his country’s masses.

“There are extremists in every religion, but just because of them you cannot judge the whole country as a terrorist nation. I just wanted to get this message across as a Pakistani.”

These simple yet bold words were spoken by him, made the hearts of Pakistanis swell with pride and joy for not only was their true representation done but they were lit up in a time crowded with despondency as the cricket-crazy nation feels ‘betrayed’ with their three top cricketers being embroiled in a shameful spot-fixing scandal and being immersed in floods while trying to fight internal cancers.

Also him, voicing his opinion about the Mosque being built near Ground Zero and his rational reasoning behind why he thinks that way, displays his level of maturity and political awareness.

The message he conveyed was one that hasn’t been given out by many of our so-called leaders and diplomats. He chose the moment to defend his country on American soil with billions, probably, as international audience all over the world. It was a silent declaration of his pure patriotism and love for Pakistan.

Years back in the World Super Junior Championships, he beat Andy Roddick and while Roddick was noticed bythe authorities in his country (despite his defeat) to polish, sponsor and prepare for bigger events , our player was ignored so this event provides us the chance to realize who we should honour and value as national heroes rather than the brazen-faced who lack a conscience when putting a price to their country’s pride.

 Aisam had been playing for ages yet he was never appreciated or encouraged as those in cricket. He made the flag of Pakistan flutter on the courts in a time when we are in an abyss of dim and darkness. He may have not won the matches but he surely won the respect, admiration, support, regardful ness and above all, the hearts and minds of the Pakistani nation.

Pakistan and the world need people like Aisam to bring people together and heal the world with their thoughts of peace.

Aisam, we are proud of you!

Surely you are the winner!


– Hafsa Khawaja

2 comments on “Why Aisam Is The Real Winner

  1. Sakib Ahmad says:

    I agree, Aisam combines talent, a capacity for hard work, patience, diplomacy and measured patriotism to an amazing extent. In a country brought to its knees by its corrupt politicians (and, indeed, lots of others in positions of power and influence), he could be a great asset to the country if he entered political life. With his easy going manner and warm personality he could succeed where the too-rigid Imran Khan failed. May he prove to be a blessing for Pakistan in years to come.

    Reverting to your previous blog post about cricket and Afridi, I was actually present at the first test match against Australia when Afridi foolishly gave away his wicket in the second innings. I found it difficult to forgive him then but subsequent events have been so extraordinary that I feel Afridi should return as captain of the Test team against South Africa next month. I just wonder if Salman Butt’s batting successes against Australia were designed to undermine Afridi and to propel Salman Butt into the captain’s seat?

    Since you appear to know so much about cricket – my own knowledge is limited – I would also like to know your take about a widespread feeling among Pakistanis that there was a conspiracy within the English cricket establishment to make sure England won the ODI series. The umpiring blunders in the fourth and fifth ODI’s are seen in this light. A comment at my blog contains this link:


    Do you go along with the feeling which has been encapsulated in the couplet?

    Hum aah bhi kartay hain to ho jaatay hain budnaam
    Voh qatl bhi kartay hain to charcha nahein hota !

    [I hope I have got it right – you can check against the video to which the link will take you]

    • hafsakhawaja says:

      While I completely am in agreement with the choice of words you have used for Aisam, I personally believe politics is too dirty a field for him to step into.
      I hope he contributes, in any way possible – for the betterment of Pakistan, its image and people in the near future.

      I too, concur with your doubt over Salman’s performance and its relation to Afridi’s ‘retirement’.

      As far as the match-fixing news is, I would only say :

      Jahan aag hoti hai,
      Waha dhooa bhi urta hai.

      I have read your post and shared it with others too, I wouldn’t term it a conspiracy exactly but would definitely say that the British, by nature are imperious and arrogant and the scandals after every defeat and even win of ours that their newspapers tried to whip up was a result of those traits. The Umpires played a vital role for their win I believe.
      And I possess the feeling that has been written about in the post too.

      Thank you for reading my blog and taking out time to comment. Much appreciated!

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